Re: Is she just being grumpy?

[Anonymous]

i thought I was supposed to be promoting her status? See i’m confused and am doing all the wrong things.  If ollie goes out of the lounge for a drink then she gets uneasy when he comes back in..sometimes she will growl sometimes she will look away sometimes she does nothing! Is it me she is trying to keep him away from? I can’t keep them both off the sofa! ollie feels safe next to me and I know she cant get him! He has spent the last 4 years having cuddles on the sofa after tea and won’t settle until he has come up. Having her on my lap I thought would give her more status…AHHHHHH